Ok, that's two questions! But you have to admit they are aiming at the same mark.
The facts are most people at one time or another feel they aren't really happy with the results they see in their life; from relationships, employment, money to health and over all fulfillment. The majority of those believe there is nothing they can do about it. They even start believing that what happens to them and what they get in life is the luck of the draw or worse, has something to do with their worth or ability to have a good life.
The truth is, most people who have great results in life are no different and definitely no better than the rest of us. Furthermore, their results aren't because they have better opportunities, luck or resources. In fact, a lot of people who ended up seeing great results in their lives, started with even less than you have now!
So what made the difference for them?
Well, I believe life is too complicated for just one flat answer. A lot of factors go into great results and success. But there is one thing that almost every successful and happy person did that can not be negated from any equation of success and happiness.
A Paradigm Shift occurred at some point in their lives.
What is a Paradigm Shift you ask? Well, first let's get rid of the notion that a paradigm shift is some miraculous breakthrough that came randomly or vicariously. That's what some people spend their lives waiting on. They hope and wait for someone or something to bring to them a change in their circumstance making way for new wonderful results. If that is your mindset and what you have been waiting on - settle in - it's going to be a long wait!
No, a paradigm is a model, pattern or standard that is the methodology of one's thoughts. It is personal and inward!
When a paradigm or the methods of thought shifts what results is fundamental change in approach from one way of thinking to another. When thinking shifts even in a subtle manner, behavior shifts. By natural law, (Newton's law,) action begets action. Newton merely stumbled upon and articulated our Creator's design of life!
To create a new result, a new action must take place. Yet to have a new action you must have a new thought. This is the foundational element of all change in our lives - the paradigm shift of our thinking models and methods.
Everything that is was brought from a thought. A thought by our Creator, a thought by another person or a thought by you! Think of anything that has been done, accomplished, invented or created and you can trace it back to a thought. Even if it manifested incidentally, a thought got the process going that ended in the result!
So when we are discussing people who have accomplish great things, have a great life and great results, especially if they had the odds stacked against them or previously had the opposite happening to them - you have to know a paradigm shift occurred somewhere in their lives!
This same concept works for you!
If you are unhappy, disappointed or even disillusioned with your life presently and you want and desire different results, you'll need to begin with the pattern of your thoughts. These thoughts can be conscious but often they are subconscious models and patterns of thoughts and beliefs that have a powerful affect on your behavior.
Consider it's not what are you DOING wrong but perhaps the methodology and patterns of your thoughts. What do you believe? What are the underlying patterns of belief and thought that are keeping you acting and reacting or stuck or producing the same results for you over and over?
Blaming others never will work in looking for the results you want. In fact, blaming others will KEEP YOU in a never ending cycle of unwanted results. If you want new and better results stop cycling in thoughts focused on the bad results and what you think were the cause. None of that will help you or empower you to produce anything different but the same results from thinking on them.
You must put that away and ask yourself plainly and specifically,
"What do I really want?"
Then begin to evaluate and manage YOUR thoughts toward that end. Even down to the very subconscious belief system that empowers you to do it!
So today, if you want new results, go on a journey of a paradigm shift! Start the process that will lead to over the top new results in your life!
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